jitterbugjive:

mlpartconfessions:

I can’t begin to count the amount of times I’ve seen popular pony artists with terrible attitudes, or who treat their fans like garbage.  I’ve seen them ridicule their followers for not knowing something, or for making a simple request (like tagging certain things), and mocking them for petty little things, then turning around and claiming that they don’t do anything like that.

I saw a popular artist recently admit that they don’t even like half the fan art they get, which is not only ungrateful, but it’s rude as hell.  I’ve seen artists vehemently deny something happening in their lives, then turn around and admit to it happening, only to mock those who question it or who ask to be brought up to speed.  I’ve seen an artist ridicule people who made a simple tagging request (for legitimate reasons), and tell them to stop trying to be such a special snowflake and a baby.

Here’s the thing.

It doesn’t matter how talented you are as an artist, you would be nowhere without your followers, your fans.  These are the people who reblog your work, who share it, who tell their friends, recommend you, buy your commissions and post them to their own blogs to share your work, who support you by buying your work, pledging your Patreon accounts and showing you support when you need it.  They are the people who send you words of support, even if you have no clue who they are, who help if you need it, send words of encouragement when you’re down and who spend their time enjoying your work.

I get that if you’re a popular, more well known artist, after a while, some things get tiring, and you have to put up with a lot of crap, and that you’re going to get tired of the constant criticism, of having hundreds, if not thousands, of strangers practically breathing down your neck.  Trust me, I know.

But does it really kill you to be civil to people?  Do you really need to mock them, and drag them through the mud and display your problems with them all over your blog for your legions of followers to see just because they disagree with you?  Is it really so hard to just either ignore them, or politely catch them up on something if they ask, rather than sneering and ask where they’ve been or if they haven’t been paying attention?

This confession is not directed at any one artist in particular.  Because I’ve seen it happen time, and time again with a lot of artists, and it’s really disappointing.  

It doesn’t matter how good, or beautiful or amazing your work is, if you are a hateful, nasty person, then when I see your work, it becomes just as ugly as your attitude.  And that’s a damn shame.

– Anonymous

how about we just say that out of every handful of people, no matter what group they’re a part of, there are going to be assholes

There are plenty of over-entitled non-popular assholes out there

Like the people who expect well known people to serve them hand and foot and treat them like customers at a grocery store. Because that happens too.

Maybe there are fans who are also complete total dickheads who stress these artists out day in, day out?

Maybe artists are also human beings who happen to make mistakes and get in bad moods sometimes?

Maybe thy don’t HAVE to be obligated to like every little thing a fan gives them just because that person is a fan? 

If I had to act like I loved every single fan art I got, that would include stuff that’s been traced or just thrown in to dollmaker or even stuff that people claim is fan art but was really just art they took off of google. Some artists might be uncomfortable with fan art because some people draw it in order to get attention, because yes, some people are in fact THAT disrespectful.

And also, the people in the pony fandom who are ‘popular’ aren’t actually all that popular in comparison to non-pony ‘popular’ artists out there. You’re shoving them on a pedestal and expecting them all to be the same copypaste ‘nice person’ and that just isn’t how people work. You’ll get some nice artists and some not so nice artists. You’ll get nice followers and not nice followers.

 It’s not okay for ANYONE to ridicule or treat people like shit.

Don’t just narrow in and say it only applies to popular artists, because they get treated like shit too and sometimes the only way they can express that is by making belittling comments towards people who have ultimately made them uncomfortable.

I never denied being an asshole, but it’s because I don’t let people step on me. Otherwise, I’m incredibly kind and respectful to those who do the same for me.

And I appreciate when people can understand that I have mental conditions and a lot of stress that factor in to my occasional outburst.

So thank you, to the people who see me as a human being who sometimes makes mistakes.

To all the people who want me to act like customer service at a grocery store: Fuck off.

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