kainei:

I’ve been seeing a lot of negativity on my dash, some being actually serious.
So, I’d like to take a moment to remind everyone:

• You’re beautiful.
• Not everyone is the same.
• Your self worth should not be measured by how much people adore you.  That’s a sure path to self hatred.
• You need to love and care for yourself.
• If someone sends negativity your way responding with similar snark solves nothing and probably fuels the sender more than anything.
• Learn to pick your battles.  Not every action needs a reaction.

• Don’t apologize for ‘posting too much of’ or just whatever..it’s your blog.  Unfollow/XKit exists for a reason.

• It’s okay to have emotions and feelings.
• Remember to drink some water on a daily basis.
• If you have an illness:  get well soon.
• If you have a chronic illness:  you deserve better in life and I hope you are getting actual help.
• If you have a mental illness:  refer to the previous bullet.
• Things do get better.
• Don’t give up.
• You need to love and care for yourself.