(Not that I wanna sex you up but) How do individuals know if they are on that level of friendship with you? When you see the individual, what connects in your head that “Hey, I know this person. This is an acquaintance/friend/close friend.”? And how do you let the individual know you’re on that level of friendship?

askbraeburned:

With literally everyone that it’s happened with, it was just during some casual conversation like we’d do almost every day and the topic of good porn we liked come up or sex in general comes up, and through some way or another we bring up pretty much at the same time that we’d both be down to do stuff together.

like, it’s not something we let people “know”, it’s not like “hello friend, we’ve been skype contacts for exactly 3 months and at this point, my mind is now attracted enough to you to be entertained at the thought of fucking you”

It’s just a thing that happens when it does. I don’t want people trying to look up the mechanics of how to forge a sexual relationship with people. People are different people, relationships have different dynamics and there’s no script or set of steps or timeline to follow. 

Well said.